Kui,good luck comes from careful handling.
The upper part is the fire and the lower part is the water, which symbolizes Kui.Therefore, a gentleman seeks common ground and minor differences.
Career
It is difficult to start a career and the situation is tough. If you can be like-minded and trust each other, the purpose can be achieved. But at first the success is mostly small. Accumulation of small things can become big things. Success is due to cooperation, but failure is due to differences of opinion. Should strengthen the unity, the commission to seek common ground. Internal mutual suspicion is the most avoidable.
Doing business
Should be calm and peaceful attitude into the market competition, seek common ground while reserving minor differences. Competitors should not be hostile, can and not flow, group not party. Especially can not cause disputes, try to avoid disaster.
Emotions
Marriage and love must be sincere. Otherwise, the third party is very easy to intervene, husband and wife suspect that the family is broken.
There are no two identical leaves in the world, not to mention that human beings are animals with complex thoughts and emotions. Therefore, even if you look at the same thing, due to their own experience is different, different perspectives on the problem, often produce differences in opinion.
Under this premise, if the problem is not handled properly, it will easily cause confrontation, conflict and contradiction between people. Here, the Hectate trigram reveals that when there is a disagreement with others, do not be stubborn and insist on your own opinion, otherwise, it will only intensify the conflict between each other and affect the progress of things.
The right thing to do is: respect this difference of opinion, and then, calmly sit down and sincerely communicate with others. Only in this way can we reduce disputes between people over right and wrong and maintain harmonious interpersonal relationships.